When you are dealing with others, always be considerate and compassionate. If you deal with others tactfully, fairly and properly, they will have a positive feel about yourself. This positive feel will give him strength to achieve great things. You have to deal with others keeping in view of their emotions. This will make them comfortable in your presence and they will be ready to give you company at any given moment.

Many people do not have the ability to understand the emotions of others. They provoke others with their words without having an idea of their inner feelings. They always talk without observing the facial expressions of others. Friendship is the only way to attract friendship. You may be having different opinions on different issues but you should have the discretion to express them in the right time, in the right place and to the right people.

You can follow the below suggestions to attract and deal with people effectively.

• Never try to impose your opinions on others. Opinions change based on the mood at that moment. It is like that you will praise the Lord when you are happy and abuse in your distress.

• A person with broad outlook will never hurt anybody. Never yield to insults. Never hurt others with your words. Do not use words like weapons.

• When somebody is sharing their problems with you, listen to them attentively and try to give your suggestions. Never open your list of achievements and problems. This will make them run away from you and they will never turn to you for help.

• Your discretion is your Guru. Always try hard to walk the talk. If somebody comes to you to share their problems, you should not ignore them watching TV or listening to songs.

• Anger, impatience are the blocks for understanding between two people. Understanding is the shortest distance between two people, which nobody want to travel. Why you do not try to understand others by removing your spectacles of anger and arrogance?

• Though you do not understand problems of your friends, you should always lend an attentive ear and helping hand to pull them out from their depression, as many of the problems are imaginative.

• Always listen to others suggestions. When you take your friends’ suggestions positively, it will help enhance your ability.

• Everybody will have problems like us. You have to tune yourself to listen to others’ problems.

• You should change your behavior towards others, keeping in view of the time and situation.

• If you act according to the mood of your boss, you will climb the ladder of success in your work place.